A conversation to begin with. Either via email or phone. I want to know your darkest desires and then tell you mine. You can write a long list of things you want. But you have to remember this is not about what you want. You are here to please me! I will incorporate your kinks if they match mine. I have a broad and varied list of filthy fetishes. I want to build ongoing interactions with you, to learn you, what makes you tick, how I can best manipulate you. For that reason committed subs are preferred. Tourists to BDSM are also welcome, and I can arrange a kinky play buffet for you guys or girls.

I want total submission and loyalty. I will want to own your desperate erections and control your cum.
Denial is a particular pleasure of mine. On every level. Chastity and key holding is an option. (But you'll have to convince me your cock is worth owning. )
Cock & ball torture is such fun, and crushing your body parts will delight me. 

Foot / Boot worship, I love wearing heels, hosiery and having my feet tickled, rubbed, licked. I will train you to do it exactly how I like it!
Cross dressing - This act signifies the role reversal. & a man in frilly panties is so hot!

Role play - Medical play, interrogation, bitch boss - Tie you up and torment you!