I have always been a curious person. Adventurous in the bedroom, and over the years, my sadistic streak grew. There just didn't seem to be many men that could handle me in the vanilla world. But finding BDSM (far too late) meant I could take this perceived negative and turn into a big, fat, positive.
I found people who worshipped me for my inflexible attitude. There was a place where my high standards and gilded ambitions were celebrated. I had spent my whole life playing at being a Domme, and eventually, I realised I could take it to the next level. So I took my natural gifts (sadism and beauty) and refined them. I worked hard to get better, to offer an experience that created a watershed moment in a man's life.
There was his existence before me and after me, I became a defining moment for my submissive's. I allowed them to be free and feel embraced for the parts of themselves that no one else could understand. If you look at me and think I just hit men for money. You could NOT be more wrong.
After 5 years operating at a professional level, I have learned so much and become terrifyingly good at what I do.
My primary fetishes are still:
I only began asking for tributes after my lifestyle subs kept encouraging me to turn Pro. Though nothing really changed in terms of my output, it felt like a huge leap at the time. 5 years on, it was a necessary transition.
By always enforcing an SSC approach, I was able to push subs safely and expand my repertoire.
Because of my approach, these men would invest a great deal of trust in me.
Consequently, I built a very devoted client base and have a stable of regulars.
If you are browsing Domme's today remember looks and age can be deceiving:
DO SOME RESEARCH. WHEN YOU ARE NOT HORNY. IT IS YOUR BODY /LIFE YOU ARE GAMBLING WITH.
Whether it is the decades of debauchery or the gift of age (40), I feel blessed with where I am now. I finally have a lifestyle partner and live the D/s dynamic daily.
I see tributing submissives as and when I feel like it. But to take me away from my perfectly trained partner for the day, you have to be offering something worth my time and attention. Primarily I only see those known to me. To get on this highly exclusive Guestlist, you'll need to be very good at hoop-jumping.
At this stage, I have also had the confidence to train other Dommes and offer coaching and advice to those in my area that need it.
They are not my competition (and trying to pit us against each other will not be well-received). We may have the same job title, but that is where the similarity ends. No 2 Dommes are the same. We vary in a hundred different ways.
My final word is this- once you find the Domme that blows your mind, don't let your ego mess it up; don't talk to her like she's an average woman. Don't ever push at her boundaries of personal space or time. Attempting to do so would only pull her down to your level; and the whole point is that she exists on a level far above you, out of reach. For good reason.
My advice is the only thing you get from me for FREE. I offer it in an attempt to keep you safe and save you from yourselves. For more insights go to my BLOG page...