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Q. How should I contact you initially?

A. By EMAIL. Include the kinks you would like to indulge, limits, experience. I need information, details. Too much is better than not enough at this point. 

Q. What are your Hard limits Mistress?

A. Good question! All the obvious ones. No intimate contact with me. I will never be naked. No SCAT. (Though watersports are possible with the right receptacle.) You can't watch me have sex. Cuckolding is not my kink. Mainly as I don't have an exhibitionist streak, not because it offends me. Someone with NO LIMITS is a hard limit for me. Anything that puts you at risk of permanent damage is not going to be okay with me. Keep it SAFE SANE & CONSENSUAL! 

Q. Do you offer same day bookings? 

A. I rarely have short notice availability. But when I do, I post on Twitter to fill the  space. So I suggest you follow me there. (Link via icon at bottom of the page.)

Q. Can you arrange Double Domme sessions? 

A. Yes with enough notice. But please note - as so many peoples time is at stake the session must be paid in FULL before hand. More information here:  https://mistresscat.co.uk/news/f/double-domme-sessions 

Q. What should I do if I have to cancel our session?

A. Let me know with as much notice as you can. I will not be cross. Only no-shows are blacklisted and shared with my network of Dommes. Deposits are never refundable. To stay in my good books, it is advisable to still pay at least 50% of the tribute.  Always do more than is expected as a general rule.

Q. I don't live near Sussex, how can I see you? 

A. I'm worth walking over hot coals for.. Get on a train, a plane.... Or sponsor my trip to your city. Of course there are many Online Domination options. Send a request with your kinks, fetishes listed & preferred method of communication. I offer text / email / video chat or custom clips.

Q. My thoughts might shock you Mistress?

A. Unlikely. I'm unshockable. The worst that can happen is that I ignore you. Then you are no worse off. Most of you have had these masochistic thoughts plaguing you for years. Making you feel like a freak. But letting that freak out is going to be the best day of your life.  Here's the story of one of my collared subs :  https://mistresscat.co.uk/news/f/a-post-from-my-collared-sub